I know this may belong in a relationship forum but I think it fits here, so here goes. Back in December I met a girl who I really like spending time with and I believe the feeling is mutual however she goes to school 3 hours away so obviously this isn't ideal for a relationship. We went out a few times and kept in touch over with talking online or texting every day and talking 3 or 4 times a week for over an hour at a time. She is in town yesterday to tuesday and I saw her last night and we had a great time and I loved just sitting being with her but when I left her house on the drive home and this morning I was feeling a bit depressed. I'm the kind of guy who (and I'm not blowing my own horn so i apologize if it sounds) likes to let my feelings known to a girl, I cannot stand the guessing games. Does she like me? Was that stupid? Am I saying the right thing? So It's easy for me to tell her how I miss her when she's gone and how happy I was to see her but she isn't the same way totally. I know from her actions that she likes me and she wouldn't have kept in contact with me every day for over a month without seeing me if she wasn't interested. Wow I just realized how I'm rambling here, it goes to show it feels good to right this stuff down. But anyways I guess I'm just wondering if anyone out there can share with my some stories or just help me try and relax about all this, all in all I guess it's to a point where I need to sit down with her and ask her what is going on between us and what her intentions are for me to tell her mine, and it scares me. My mind is racing over this because I want a relationship more than anything right now but having one with a 3 hour distance isn't ideal I just don't know what to do.
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