Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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LazyDaisy
LazyDaisy

I feel like a waste of space. I never know whether to post on here or on the anxiety chat 'cause I feel both. My therapist says I should consider depression meds (although I'm gonna wait out the end of my semester to see how I manage). I have so many obligations and I always feel ran ragged but at the same time like a little baby that has nothing to deal with compared to others. I look in the mirror and I don't really recognize myself, everything feels off. I'm always anxious and when I'm not, I feel like a lump of nothing that doesn't move. Am I really even depressed or am I just weak? I am taking the ASVAB test today, I'm considering going into the Army. Not sure if this would improve my life or make my mental state worse. I just want to live for God, I keep feeling bad for feeling this way because I feel like I should be fine, I have all that I need and loving people in my life. Others have real problems. I even feel bad for writing on here. 

sonnycamehome
sonnycamehome
Depression is a chemical illness, not a character flaw. There's absolutely no shame in seeking treatment be that medication, therapy or both.
Restful
Restful
I’m sorry you’re feeling down. I know what it’s like to feel depression and anxious at the same time. Meds have helped me, along with therapy, although I still have very challenging times. My personal opinion about going into the Army is that it may not be the best thing for your mental health. I know when I’m under pressure to perform, I feel like shutting down. I don’t think the rigid structure of the military would be a good environment for someone with depression and anxiety.
shadowlady
shadowlady
Oh Sweetie,
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Sounds like you have a great deal on your plate. You're a very brave young woman. Prayers and blessings
eli_mom
eli_mom
Hello Daisy,
I'm so sorry to hear you feel this way. This verse is always my comfort whenever I go through difficulties, “Give all your concerns to God because He cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7) I pray that you will also find comfort in His Word and you will have peace as you bring all your concerns and worries to God. He cares for you. I hope things will go well with you and you will feel alright.

Try to talk to your doctor about your plans of going to the Army. I hope to hear from you again. Take care of yourself.
Friendless
Friendless
If you have a mental illness going to the army is not a good idea my dad got OCD and PTSD because of working at the military.
Your choice though .
Lavender80
Lavender80
You are important, your needs, wants, and desires are also important. You problems aren't as big as others as you perceive but if we all thought that way...then only the most anxious and depress will deserve medication and the rest of us don't! What I'm trying to say...is you are the most important person in your world. You are just as deserving of medical attention and care as someone who's suffering from psychotic episodes.

I use to always say that as well...my friend has it worst...shes' on 2 depression meds...and has therapy twice a week...my problems are nothing.

But then they became something, and it was enough to disrupt "my world". That is all that matters.

Reach out for help, anxiety and depression makes us feel like we aren't worthy...and that we don't deserve help...and that we shouldn't take care of ourselves.

Sending you light, love, and hope. All the best!
giaeve
giaeve
How often do you pray? How often are you in the word? How often are you in a positive community? We are meant to be in community. Depression loves to keep us in isolation. There is so much power in prayer and the word. Take a verse or two and meditate on it. You can renew the mind biblically. It takes time and effort but it is worth it. Find a church that has groups and class and stay busy with that. Volunteering and serving helps too. Get out and fill your schedule and mind with good.
MrsOtto
MrsOtto
Please check out the meds, what you are feeling is not normal.
The stresses of college is real, anxiety is real and depression is real.
There is help, please seek.
I'd say no go on the army, now is not the time to make big decisions when you're feeling off.
Im praying for you!
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