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Itzjustme
Itzjustme
I seem to have none towards men. idk why not all of em are bad. when i guy gets to close to me i panic. when a guy stares at me i get uncomfortable. i dont wanna where make up cus i dont want to attract anyone. im 16 and am not like the other girls at school with there trust and stuff and their happiness. one time my mom had a bf and he would always say how beautiful i am, how my legs were so long, and he would just stare and ughhhhh i got soo uncomfortable ...why am i not normal?? like wtff!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
from the other side of the fence...I didn't have a GF til I was 19. You just may not be ready yet. I would look at girls, but when they looked at me and smiled or did that hair thing; I would quickly look away or even leave wherever I was. I mean, I really wanted to talk to them, but just didn't know what to say or even do. After the first GF, it became MUCH easier to talk to them and hold a conversation.

Just my 2 from the male perspective :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
if im assuming right,by looking at what groups you are a member of, i think your lack of trust is totaly understandable hun.
there will be some guys you will learn that u can really trust,even if not at first it will develop over time i.e when they stick around through everything and they show appropriate behaviour. guys at your age hun stil act a bit imature. wait a few years and they grow up a bit,then ul find someoone who understandds and u can trust.
x
deleted_user
deleted_user
You have unfortunately been subjected to your mother BF'd unacceptable behaviour. He had no right to sexualise you in the way he did and no wonder you don't trust. The first man you have any relationship with is your dad, right? If you got a crappy deal there it will rub off on you and you will not have had a trusting loving relationship with a man who should have been your role model so therefor you have no one to measure a male relationship against thats why you are different from your friends, I would guess they have mom and dad on the scene?

It so hard Itzjustme, but hell, lie isnt all about being attractive to the opposite sex, find yourself, revel in your freedom and take your time, a good man is hard to find my friend. HUGS x