i understand you. you can message me if you would like. i will respond as soon as possible.

In so sorry people feel entitled to tell you how to grieve and what to do when they don’t even understand, depression isn’t something u can easily get over, thanks for sharing!!:))

Thanks Cats123 and Sfay. I just needed to vent. I'm very grateful for DS friends who understand.

This reminds me of when I told my brother about my Depression. He didn't have a clue as to what I was experiencing. HIs wife told me that he couldn't even help her when she had gone through a similar case of depression before I had! He kept saying that I wasn't old enough to be that sad and how I should have tried harder to make it go away. Family or not they quite often understand very little about Depression until they go through it themselves. That is what took place with my other brother (I have three). He experienced Depression for the first time. He know what it is now!!

I'm here for you if you would like to every talk. Take care.

Vent away! I totally understand!

You don't have to tell the coworker anything about your personal life. In fact, I would advise you not to tell them any of your personal business at all. Telling them stuff could be used against you at your place of employment. And you don't need your boss hearing about your problems and them looking at you in a different way, on top of everything else you are dealing with in your life.

Keep work and personal life - separate.

If they ask how you are, simply say, "I'm fine, thanks. How are you?"

You can vent here to us all you like.

You have suffered multiple significant losses in such a short period of time. I can understand your desire for peace and quiet. I am sorry for everything you've been through. You have come to the right place to vent. We are here for you no matter what!