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Tough Day

WendiLaine
WendiLaine

I'm having a really hard day today. 


Everyday I wake up hopeful and optimistic but lately it seems like the universe throws me something new to deal with every day. I try to push through and keep going even though I don't want too, but today everything became so overwhelming. 


What makes it harder is being a mom - my son is too young to comprehend what depression is let alone what it does to a person. Simple mothering tasks are especially hard today, but I have to push on for him. He is my motivation. 


My marriage is toxic. My husband is insincere about my illness. He becomes angry at me when I have bad days. He honestly makes me feel worse which is very hurtful because a spouse is supposed to love and support you. 


I want to remind you all that what you are dealing with is not "imaginary". Your emotions are real and you have every right to feel them. Please do not believe anyone who says you are being overly sensitive or dramatic. Depression is a real illness and it is very real.


I am happy to have you all here who understands. 

Restful
Restful
I’m so sorry you’re having a difficult time. I know how you feel about pushing onward for your son. I do the same for my son even when I don’t feel like moving. It would be so much better if your husband was more supportive of your illness. I can’t imagine my spouse getting angry with me every time I feel like driving my car into a big tree. I hope your days start to get brighter soon. Feel free to message me anytime if you need someone to talk to. I can definitely relate.
NotBadButNotGreat
NotBadButNotGreat
I hope you can find a way to change how you deal about your husband.

Maybe try taking a step back to consider whether you add to the tension between you and your husband. If your main issue with him is his insincerity and anger surrounding your depression, then I suggest you try different ways to talk about it with your husband.

Here's some ideas to get you thinking in the right direction: https://www.thisisinsider.com/talking-to-partner-mental-illness-expert-2017-11

I hope communicating your depression with your husband in a constructive way to improve your relationship. Hang in there!
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