im always online if you need to talk. No need in ending your life, they are people out here that are wiling you just havnt found the rite friends. Ill be your friend im always online. big hugs and hope you get feeling better

Wendy, sometimes a post gets buried because of how busy this site is. I usually scroll down to see if someone got lost in the pile up of posts. Hard as it is, sometimes we need to let new people replace the old. Sometimes we have to create a new family as the one we came from is too toxic for us. We are here for you. Please keep reaching out. Power and comforting hugs.

Unfortunately, people do come and go. It's the nature of social media, but lots of people do stay, and like Simpsons said, sometimes a post gets buried. We all need people we can count on in this world, but I've found that the most reliable person is myself. I have good people in my life, but I practice good self care because in the end, I'm left with me. You seem to be spiraling, and I'm wondering if you need more intensive support right now...you are worthy of all the support available to you.

Wendy, excuse my french, but fuck being pretty. Most people's idea of pretty is vapid and boring. Girls who dress up cute and put on lots of makeup all look the same to me. They also look like they wasted 2 hours in the morning getting ready. (Not to be hateful, but I want to be in touch with things I don't value, you know? We all value different things.) I'd much rather have tea and read a book!

Fuck being rich. I know it's cliche to say, you know, riches are really the things you can't see and touch. You can make your life rich by pouring love into it. We are here to live love and give love. Ok, being broke also sucks, but one thing at a time, you know?

And fuck being popular. Most people are stupid anyway. When you learn to love and value yourself more, you will attract people who resonate with you, and those are the people actually worth your time. Fuck everyone else. Sorry! I hope this is helpful and maybe gave you a laugh!

<3<3<3 much love. Please stick around. The people who are thinkers and feelers are the one who end up depressed. You are prone to depression because you are capable of great love, it's a weird catch 22. I believe in you, please stick around and keep going. I sent you a message, hope to hear from you soon!

I'm around for u 2 Wendy if u wanna chat

hi hon. ive dealt with depression since i was a tiny kid. i tried to get 'to the end' 3 times when i was younger. but only made things worse. hang in there & know there's love, understanding & hope for better times coming from me. xo

thank you guys so much. you understand. it's so awful to feel this way. the feeling of isolation is the worst but you guys made me feel less that way. i'll try to write more later. I have to go to the store at some point for cat food.. : ) hugs

Sorry to hear that you are feeling isolated. It is great that you have a cat to care for. I am a true believer in pet therapy. My pets have shown me so much love over the years. Since your feelings go deep, you probably like to do creative things. I hope you can find a way to express yourself through a journal or some kind of art work. Playing an instrument or singing are some other suggestions. Try something new!

even though chat is there at the moment, almost, I prefer to befriend and send messages. if checked daily your get a hug a day for each message to each friend. I am have been afar from the site and sometimes even on a one on one it depends what the other person can take. I can try that for you. I do have a family to tend to but I will do my best to answer on a daily basis.