Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
I'm really struggling with my abusive family of origin, living with and taking care of my old mom and being ill. Not enough money either. I just feel very hopeless. Trapped. I feel like I have no control over my life. So many things are going on that are so incredibly hard to deal with or change.
I can't talk to my therapist anymore. She turned out to be cold and uncaring and I just can't handle that anymore, esp. now that I am ill. She showed no concern for me at all when I told her what was happening to me with my health. Neither did my siblings. Neither offered to help me in a time when I was in great need due to illness and major surgery. How am I supposed to relate to them after that? They don't want to take any responsibility for their behavior. They act like nothing happened, like I don't exist. I have cut both of them off but that complicates things even more since my mother is staying with me. They refuse to help.
It's just all too much. I need outside support. My entire family is selfish and crazy and they are driving me completely over the edge.
I’m so sorry you are going through a tough time at the moment. Thank you for sharing with us, we are here for you.
You mentioned that you can’t talk to your therapist anymore? Are you planning to look for another one? I hope you can get the help you need.
Having a trusted friend that you can confide in whenever you need would be helpful. Do you have a support group? If you don’t have yet, try to connect with your local church or community.. I have my life group who has been very helpful especially when I am going through problems. I can count on them to pray with me and encourage me. Feel free to come back anytime and talk to us.
I was a caregiver to my father when he was sick. I was thankful that I had my cousins’ help. Most of the churches offer help for free, you can ask them if you need help with your Mom.
Praying for you that things will get better for you soon. God bless.