I hope your luck changes soon. I understand about life being crazy. It always seems to hit all at the same time also. Hang in there, some day the clouds will lift and life will greet you with all the wonderfulness you deserve.

Every day is a new day ripe with oppertunities, I'm sure you tell you son this every day. It applies to you as well. Keep perservering and nothing will keep you from your goals.

Kelly

Thanks sometimes its just nice to hear from someone else telling u it will be alright.

quite simply. why..in god's name do you need a man in your life...Just love your son and move forward.

I think that men and women alike would all want someone with qualities like this in their life unless they hang on to bitterness and resentment.

Having a man or woman in your life, most of the time makes your life so much better. The hard part is finding that person to help make your life more complete. I have been single for 9 years now and I don't hardly date anyone because, the gals I know, very well I won't date them and the ones I meet have problems of their own and don't want to fix them.

It is hard to date. Sometimes i get lonely and try but either i feel more like friends or feel used like they only want one thing and dont really show feelings for me. The two times i really fell for someone and they said they really cared for me, they end up leaving me for someone else. I guess it wasnt ment to be, but i wonder does god have someone for me, have i just not met him yet

I've been searching all my life, I'm almost 52. I often wonder why
god wanted me to live so many years without love. It makes me cry.

Don't rely on a man to love you. Love yourself. Properly loved by yourself, then, love has a habit of coming along.

Love from another has a habit of coming along, I mean.

yep I am tired too

I have to think that one day I will meet a wonderful person who loves me just for me. I want someone who can be my best friend and wants to be with me even when we are having a bad day. Someone who doesn't just want me for one thing. Someone who will be with me for the long hall. I have to believe this person exist but what if we never find each other. I know I am supposed to love myself first before someone can love me. But it is hard to be optimistic when everyone leaves me. I know that sounds pitiful. I do good for a while, Im upbeat and have that I don't care if I have a man attitude. But I really get lonely when my son is gone ever other weekend to his dads. I really don't have a best friend. Im really in a good mood today, don't know why I am being so pathetic. LOL

By the way, my brother had it right. He was joking with me one day and told me "sis, if you didn't have bad luck, you wouldn't have any luck at all". I laughed but I sometimes really think he is right.