So we went to the bar last night with my boyfriend's family. It was a good night and i was having a lot of fun until around midnight. My bf met some kid at the bar and decided they were soul brothers. He kept commenting on how much this kid was like him and it was so refreshing to meet someone like him and yadda yadda yadda. This is a problem with my bf. He meets someone and five minutes later they are the key to his life he has been missing! So i tried to come over and talk to them because i had not been around my bf all night. I was not mad about it merely wanted to join in the conversation. I said five different things and my bf simply ignored me for his new friend. Although he did not say it there was an aire of ' the men are talking...' to the way he dismissed me as if nothing i could possibly say meant anything in comparison to what this barfly might be saying and that i, his gf of four years, could not possibly have anything to add to the conversation. So i got mad to which he responded to by following me around yelling whats wrong in my face for the next hour. Asking what i said, and if it was so important why couldnt i remember. Mind you in my opinion i could have been giving a commentary on how the paint chipped on the ceiling and he should not ignore me. We ended up leaving and while in the car he demanded to know what i said. I again told him i couldnt remember...it was not important to the argument. What was important was how he treated me. So he jumped out of the car while it was moving telling me to go fuck myself he was going to his friends. This is not a story that is uncommon in our life. Every couple months something like this happens. Now its the next day. I have received over 50 calls asking what hes done wrong. Am i crazy or is this really no way to treat a person?! He has my doubting myself although his whole family tells me i should leave.