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bostonchef96
bostonchef96

hi, I'm Christianna. I'm 20 and I'm a chef. I've been single for about 6 months now. My ex left me unexpectedly and without explanation, and did not contact me after he broke up with me. It's been really difficult, we had been together over 2 years. It's been 6 months since I've felt loved. My parents do not speak to me anymore. They think that I feel like I'm too good for them. I call them over and over to talk and they don't respond. I don't have any friends near me (Boston) and no family either. All I want is for someone to hold me while I cry and make sure I'm drinking enough water.



ive been vomiting a lot the last two days. I had a pregnancy test and it's negative because I have the implant. But it's really hard to feel so sick and not have anyone to take care of you. I miss my family so much and I don't know what I did to deserve being exiled. All I want is to feel loved.

EmmaRose88
EmmaRose88
Hugs I've been in your shoes. If you need an ear feel free to message me.
billwfriend
billwfriend
Hugs
jellybean423
jellybean423
Hugs!!
muskrattiger
muskrattiger
I will keep you in my prayers .....take very good care of your self ...God bless
bridgie101
bridgie101
so sorry to hear your troubles. I wonder if you can get leave from work and go home and sort this crazy thing out with the family. Got any idea why they're acting this way? Anything you can remember doing or saying?

Also very sorry about ex boyfriend. :( I've actually been in your shoes a bit, all I can say is you will survive, but you may not look at your family the same afterwards...
Community LeaderWanderingVet
WanderingVet
Sorry to hear of these troubles. First thing is your health. Is it possible to get a doctor's opinion on the nausea??? 2 days of vomiting is getting serious. Yes, drink water to prevent dehydration, but you need to find out why you are nauseated.

There is something odd going on ... BF vaporizing as he did. No CLUE as to why he left?? Then, the parental rejection ... no clue as to why that?? Somewhat bewildering to me.

All I can say is "If anyone doesn't like me, .. screw 'em" but I doubt you can take that position. I wish I could be more helpful.
bullito
bullito
check out an emergency line in your area, support groups that can put you with someone on the phone. being listened to is essential. so is getting out of your home and going for a walk and focusing on not yourself but nature, trees, water, animals, try 4oz of Gatorade every half hour. if you can hold that you will not dehydrate churches can be a good place to go to just say that you need someone to talk to... you do not have to join or anything go chef!
sharaninmd
sharaninmd
Sorry to hear that you are going through so much. You should probably put your health first by seeing a doctor who can determine why you are nauseated. If at all possible you should see your family in person so that you can find out why you are being treated this way and hopefully, make amends with them. Also, sorry to hear about the ex boyfriend and your best friend. Try to find a local support group in your area so you can get more people contact and share with people who are also going through similar situations. You may find a support group through a local church in your area. I hope things get better for you. I will keep you in my prayers.
sunandbutterflies
sunandbutterflies
Hello Christianna,
Sorry to hear of all the challenges that you are facing, and the loneliness. As Sharanin suggested, going to the doctor might be a good start. Hopefully you will have opportunity to meet with your family as well to get things sorted out.
Getting involved with a support group or talking to a a licensed counselor might be helpful for you as well.
Hope that things improve for you.:)
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