Good question! I am trying to find that too.

write a list of your values- what do you value in life? what is important to you? then start slowly with one at a time try to stick to that value. ex: you value helping others- once a day do a kind act for someone then you will feel worthy about yourself. stick to what you believe is truly right in your heart

Im so lost and im in pain i feel like a lost cause

From what I read above it looks like you set your heart and mind to something that will fulfill your life! Once you can feel confident in the fact that you can do blank, blank, and blank. Then you build on that!

I also feel the same way about finding "Haply Ever After" and from what I understand you can only wait and be patient til it comes! Then you really have to love yourself and except it when it does happen. :) Because it will!

Write down the good things about yourself and read it daily.that has helped me.

Just breathe. Just breathe. Listen to your favorite music and just look outside but don't you ever forget to breathe.

And if all else fails, remember that you take up space in this universe. You have your own consciousness. Look down and that's your body, those are your hands. You are made out of discarded star dust and are one of the most complex things in the entire universe. You are here because every cell in your body is simultaneously working together in order to keep you functioning.

All that has to be worth something, yes?

I dont know if this helps but if you text "HOME" to 741741, they listen if you just wanna vent or give you suggestions to aid the problem or how you are feeling. They have really helped me with my anxiety and learning good breathing.