Believe that you are better and you will find the right person to be with

Hey Bridd, sorry you are dealing with this. Relationships are complicated and fickle, it's always hard to say why they won't work or stick. There's so much that goes into it, like a pie or cake, both the ingredients available and how they develop over time.

It is always good to take a step back and work on self-improvement. Sometimes we also have more pressing matters that need attending. You might be pining for a relationship, but it's better to just worry about other things for a while.

I wish you all the best, and if you have personality going for you, that's about 85% of what you need! Personality is everything! I know you will figure it out. Much love and warm hugs!

I think that statement that you are not enough is wrong .. each of us are unique piece of a puzzle and sometime we force ourself to fit into something not meant for us .. but you have to remember that there is someone who is out there who fits with our personality.. im not saying it will be easy .. every relationship need to have the 2 people in it put in the hard work n effort to maintain it .. it’s like you can’t clap with one hand !
But yes I agree.. when things look bleak .. it’s always good to step back n reflect on oneself and be alone for a while n enjoy your own company!

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I think one of the hardest things is believing we are enough. And when we do not believe we are enough, we intentionally or not, do things to push other people away. It isn't easy and it is said so much, but spend time learning to love yourself and recognizing you are worthy and forget all those that don't see it. Their loss. Trust me, it is easier said than done. I have struggled so much with feeling not good enough the majority of my lift, but I know it is possibly to overcome that. I believe in it so much, I have created a self-esteem and self-care online coaching program called Coming Home to You. I believe with all my heart, you will learn to love yourself <3