I've had to make new friends whenever I move. You need new friends. It's not impossible. First, that isn't a friend

I don't really have friends either so i understand. I think you should try to make new friends. You don't need someone like that. A real friend wouldn't be like that.

YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF THE HOUSE
AND FORCE YOURSELF TO TALK TO PPL.
AND YOU NEED TO STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF, AND SEEK THE ATTENTION IN "REALITY" SITTING @ A COMP ALL DAY COMPLAINING IS NOT GOING TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS. I LEARNED THAT.

U NEED TO GET UP, AND GO FIND FRIENDS, THEY HARDLY WILL FIND YOU.

STOP PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN, AND HAVE SOME FAITH.

where i live is not that big, i see them wherever i go:(...

Making new friends is not an overnight thing, at least usually. The "friend" you describe is not a friend at all. A true friend would never say such things to a friend. Reach out to others, and you'll make friends. Just be patient.

You wont find new friends over night, it takes time to build new friendships and trust. Is there a group of some sort you could join? Or maybe start a new hobby where you can meet people with similar interests

where can you join groups for free? if you know of any i would consider them. i like poetry...does anything come to mind?

I lost all my friends and have no one to talk to at all since she left. But since then, there have been some of her friends that have found out what a lying abusive ho she was, not me. So slowly they are just writing to say hi or call and leave a message. If they arent going to hear both sides and not be your friend cus of her, then you need to just let them go be with her and find some new friends.

While it is good to be around someone when we first split out of a relationship, there is something to be said for taking time to ourselves as well to get right with us. Take it as it comes. It will all work out as it should.

You could try looking online for groups in your area, or try a local community center or church, they normally have groups you could join

yeah try joining a group, me i join some groups at church, and i made some pretty good firends ,

I know in my area, the citys website has an event calendar. You can browse the events, and see others oeople in the area that might be going as well. Maybe your city, or the Big city around you, has something like that.

not to offend anyone, but im not religious... do churches let non Christians or whatever join?

yeh, churches will usually accept anyone, but they will eventually be hoping you will join.

call me "a sinner" if you will, but i just cant join a uniform religion... no, thats just not something i will do... darnnit! are churches the only place that offers groups/clubs? i have seriously never heard of anything like this in my town... :(

I understand how you feel. I dont have anytrue friends where I live either. This may sound cheesy, but I have decided to use this time to work on myself. I know it is not a long term fix, but my online friends and discussion boards like this fill the void for now. I do have a question though. Why are you so against organized religion?