why is it that when u need a friend the most - when u are going through rough and tough times and are sorting out ur life- thats when u really find out who is ur "True Friend" and who is ur "Fair Weather Friend".... u know the types- that are there for u when things are good- but when things get bad- whoa- they don't want anything to do with you... i thought a friend is someone who is on ur side right or wrong and always there for u even when u don't agree on the situation..... i recently lost a good friend- who was like a father figure to me- it really hurt me and now i'm also angry, because he wanted me to choose between the man i love and himself... of course i chose the path of the man i love- i was always taught if someone makes u pick- they aren't really ur friend... though he says his reason for ending the friendship is that he doesn't want to see me get hurt again emotionally- i am there for my friends even if they are hurt- so what if i don't agree and it makes me angry- i'm there for them- this is more of a venting post- but i know i'm not the only one going through this... this being said i have some truly dear friends who have stuck by my side through this all and for the love and support you've shown i want u to know i appreciate it more than words can say! big hugs and much luv to you all- thanks for letting me vent and get this off my chest- also like to mention i did this in the way he wrote the journal entry about me- without using names - so that means it won't hurt u right ?! but u know who u are- just thought u would like to see how it feels to be talked about behind ur back where everyone can see.......... sorry very hurt and angry right now people and words help me get this anger out so that i don't take it out on others...