What did I say weeks ago OD!!!!????

What is she (they???) doing!???

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Sweetheart,

If She Is Hurting You In Any Way, Shape Or Form, She Needs To Go.

((((((((HUGS))))))))) And Love

Oh gosh sweetie........ I don't know what to say really except that I think you need to take care of yourself first and foremost. If I recall correctly, this arrangement was only through the end of the year, right?

Is she not capable of getting a job? I know you have a huge heart and that's why you took your roomates in , to help them out and I admire you for that but you should NEVER have to feel uncomfortable in your own home. NEVER. I'm thinking of you and you know I am a pm away if you want to tell me more of what is going on. I hope you can figure something out ASAP.

((((((((((( HUGS AND LOVE )))))))))))))

LMT

I have no choice she has to go. I have had enough and it is not my problem that she has no job or a place to stay. She has been too much to handle and I cannot afford to support her anymore. As well she is being very irresponsible in my house. I cannot give details but all hell is about to break loose. I hate that it comes to this but she leaves me no choice. What a way to screw up my life. I am such a fool.

If you think she is playing mind games with you than she is . I knew people like that the best thing you can do is get away from them they will never change and if you have depreshion you don't need to have some one like that to put up with ....god bless take care

She is leaving now. I hate it came to this. I feel awful.

Oh NO YOU DON'T................ I know why she is leaving now and you are DAMN WELL doing the right thing. Good riddance.

You don't need to feel awful , you have no other choice sweetie. I am sorry it came to this too, but you had no way of knowing when you took her in that things would go the way they did. You did it out of the kindness of your heart and your generosity. That is who you are and who you have always been since I've known you. She will find a way to make it and it's not your responsibility anymore. I promise you, you did the RIGHT THING.

I am here for you, you know that. Things are going to be much better now, trust me.

(((((((((((( EXTRA HUGS )))))))))

LMT

and you are NOT A FOOL. PLEASE PLEASE stop beating yourself up over this. YES, I AM SCREAMING THAT.

I mean it, please please stop beating yourself up. I know how you are and I know you feel guilty even KNOWING you are doing what you have to do, but I just hate to see you calling yourself a fool when you are NOT.

you know I love you my precious friend.

LMT

me again.. I apologize for saying ' Good riddance'. that was wrong, I just said it cause I am upset for you. I apologize. :((

It is all good LMT. Thank you for your love and support. I went against my better judgement and I paid a price. It was a costly lesson but any good lesson is worth the cost so long as I don't repeatedly do the same silly thing over and over again. So I chalk this up to live and learn.

I am glad you did what is best for you. Have peace in knowing you did the right thing. Big hugs to you.

She would have needed to earn your trust and the right to share lodgings with you.

Irresponsibility is unacceptable in an adult who is renting from you, right inside your personal space.

You may be a bit soft-hearted, but that can be forgiven.

An adult taking advantage of that is not forgivable.

You Did The Right Thing Sweetheart.

Sending ((((((HUGS)))))) And Love

You need to put yourself first and foremost, okay? It sounds like you are being taken advantage of and that is not acceptable. You are not responsible for this person. They found a way to get where you are, they will find a way to go back. Your depression may not be triggered now, but why take the chance of it flaring up into a firing ball? Please take care of yourself, okay? Hugs GB