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So.. my one guy friend.. we had gotten a lot closer throughout this school year. I really enjoy hanging out with him, and I thought that we were really good friends. We ended up sleeping together a couple of times, and it was cool.. totally not awkward in the following few weeks after we did. But then midterms and papers and all that crap hit and we didn't have any time alone together for a while.. so needless to say we haven't slept together again, just those couple of times. Well it didn't seem awkward or bad for a while yet cuz we were just busy and stuff. But the last few weeks I've gotten such an uncomfortable vibe from him when I do see him around, and he hasn't called me or texted me in weeks, and he used to call or text me every day both before and for the few weeks after we had slept together. He's been virtually ignoring me when we hang out with friends, and not answering simple conversational questions. Yesterday for instance I casually asked a couple of times when me and another friend were over at his place if he was going out to this bar that night. He completely ignored the question! Turned out he was going anyways.. but when him and his buddy showed up he pretty much acknowledged everyone but me. It really fucking hurt. And then, virtually out of no where my roommate (who is also friends with him) asked me if I was over him yet.. and I was like "uh.. what? I didn't know there was something to be over.. but.. uh.. am I supposed to be??" and she was like "yeah.. you should be.." I was like ok what the fuck is that supposed to mean?? She told me that she thinks that he is seeming someone... I don't totally trust her though, but still... that would certainly explain why he is suddenly ignoring me when he wasn't before..
But I am fucking PISSED that he was just ignore me like that... we were good friends.. we weren't dating... why the hell wouldn't he just TELL me he was seeing someone? what the hell?! He's just throwing a fucking friend away for no reason.. and giving me no explanation... I hate shit like that.. I swear I cannot remember being this pissed in a long long time... i hate him right now!
But I am fucking PISSED that he was just ignore me like that... we were good friends.. we weren't dating... why the hell wouldn't he just TELL me he was seeing someone? what the hell?! He's just throwing a fucking friend away for no reason.. and giving me no explanation... I hate shit like that.. I swear I cannot remember being this pissed in a long long time... i hate him right now!
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best thing to do is blow it off, do not freak out or berate him or anything. Just quietly move on with your own life.
confronting him with your anger won't help a thing.
males are different species, not nearly as enlightened as us girls! LOL. ((((((bighugs)))))))
i hate losing friends
It's better to try to talk things out and clear the air.