Just politely tell your friends that you appreciate their concern but you don't yet feel able to talk about it. Then turn it around and ask how they are doing. You don't need all the drama added in to the mix.

Sorry that this has happened to you. Friends have a way of causing other mutual friends follow their way of thinking and treating other people poorly. I agree with Heidiclark's comments.

When I say I dont want to talk about it they just get mad at me saying I dont trust them. I dont want drama but I really dont know how to make them not get mad at me :(

I know the feeling. My therapist wants me to not hold in my feelings. But when I don't I tend to hurt someone or make them mad. It hurts me to hurt them. I told my therapist sharing my feelings don't work just makes people mad and hurt. So I told him I'm gonna hold my feelings back in. He said that wasn't a good idea. He and I are going to work on some other ways to get my feelings out without hurting people this week sometime

Not overreacting nothing wrong with being sensitive, that does seem like a pretty mean thing to say. Its okay we're all here for you here. <3

Thanks guys that really helps

I think we have to leave our personal problems at home when we go out into the world. Your friend is right; it's insufferable having a sad-sack around all the time. Let your problems go. Leave them at home. Don't bring them with you everywhere.

If she's mad at you that means she's had a gutsful. The more lightly you behave, the better you will feel. Allow yourself to have some fun. Allow your group of friends to have a laugh without being that one wet rag in the corner. It's kind of controlling. You're controlling everyone's happiness. And if they start to feel you're not doing it by accident: look out. They will eventually have to ditch you anyway though, because nobody can cope with that. Nobody can cope with that day after day.

this isn't about 'not talking' or 'hiding your feelings'. This is about CHANGING your feelings. Leaving old feelings behind. Allowing yourself the space to have new feelings.

I know the desire to cry all the time. It's depression. But if you permit it, you will go right down the toilet. you have to have a time and a place. And that time is later, and that place is at home. Or in the loo.

If you feel weepy? think of something else. Distract your mind. Go to the toilet, wash your face. cry in the loo a little bit and then wash up, clean up, come back. Don't ever cry in class.

You can do one of several things. You can reassure your friends that you do trust them but you just aren't ready to talk yet and leave it at that or you can find new friends who you do feel more confortable talking to