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Rather than debate this, I advise you to take her advice. If she is a psychiatrist and hesitates to prescribe medication, she has her reasons ... trust me. Psychiatrists USUALLY and ONLY prescribe medication. She is doing you a huge favor by considering all options first.
Go to the program. Give it all you have ... it is being professionally offered by an expert.
"No medications have been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration to treat BPD."
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/borderline-personality-disorder/index.shtml
I strongly suggest you read the entire article there.