What is your visual image of good enough?

Being able to do anything and feeling as though I have accomplished something

Trying to be "good enough" is a neverending battle that will only result in perpetual disappointment. Don't think about it. Just do something. Anything at all. If you managed to get out of bed this morning and do something, that's a victory.

Thanks. Each day is a challenge

The person that makes me feel like I cant do anything right the most is my mother. I am just not like her. My focus is not on the things that she is focused on such as gardening and home improvement. I mad the decision not to long ago that I was gonna start just doing what I do and enjoying myself, but she takes every chance possible to let me know that I am not doing what is right or needed, but that's in her Eyes. I just gotta deal with being inadaquite to her and im working on knowing my self worth.

Each day IS a challenge, but look at getting through each day as an accomplishment. Getting through all the daily struggles is such an accomplishment and you should be proud of that.

Oh I feel your frusteration. The bottom line is people have different expectations and we will never be good enough for those who have super high expectations. But they live with their own issue they themeselves can’t reach. Please know this you are uniquely and beautifully made. God put you on this earth and has a plan for you. Do not give up because you do matter. Praying for you and proud of you for getting on here and chatting it out! -Rachel

You're the judge of whether it is good enough. My mom can be demanding but my relationship with her and my own feelings became better when I realized it did not matter whether she was happy with me or agreed or disagreed with something I did. It's my life and I'll do it the way I want.

Note if you're the judge, you determine whether it is good enough. If you feel you worked hard on something then guess what, THAT'S GOOD ENOUGH. For example, I helped with a charity that provides food, collected and brought food over. In some ways, I have not been as successful as others and can make some mistakes. But guess what, I am better than 95% of the people in making the world a better place, I enhance things, and that gives me confidence. Consider things the same way, do what you think is important, work hard at it, and consider yourself a success for doing that and don't worry too much about other people's measurements. Note fame and wealth can be fleeting, I saw Paul Manfort had apparently millions, and the next year he's in jail.

Thank you for your support. It's hard to talk about these kind of things