Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Hi Everyone. I just joined so I really don't know where to begin. A Little about Myself. I am 64 Have 3 grown children and 4 grandchildren.My oldest (daughter) has not spoken to Me in almost 20 years and I have no idea why. She lives about 15 mins away and has 2 children which I never met. A boy and a girl.I think they are about 14 and12. ( not sure) My oldest Son only calls Me near Christmas time and he lives about 15 mins away.He has no kids . My youngest son has 2 little girls. One is 17 and one is 10. I only hear from him twice a year . Christmas time and in Spring near Mothers day. He lives about 45 mins away. I understand they are busy with their own lives and families etc but they could at least call me on My Birthday, etc. I used to watch the girls when they were little . 3 days a week for about 10 hrs or so. Now I only see them 2 days a year. I miss them so much. I cry every single day. I have lots of Health issues and noone ever calls to check on Me. I could be lying there dead and noone would know for Months. I have no friends. I live in a senior highrise apt bldg and noone in here likes Me. I can tell. I just stay in My apt and mind my own business. I hate living here .I am alone every single day. I go to restaurants alone. I go to the stores alone. I take walks alone. I have noone . none at all. Sometimes I feel like I would be better off in Heaven. Noone Loves Me or cares if I am here or not. This is why I joined the group. I hope I can make some friends and find support and encouragement. Thank You for having Me. Hugs, Tulip
On your children, was there any issue with the father? Are they estrangled because of some incident in their past? Also, you can call also. Waiting by the phone for it to ring is a lonely road. Can you give them a call? What would it hurt? They are only calling you twice a year now. So it can't get much worse.
Can you join any activities there at your appt. Bingo or sewing or some sort of walking group. Getting out and getting to known some of the residents will help. And you have little to loose right now with not knowing anyone. It will be tough to go in cold but you might find something you love.
Tell us how to goes and more about yourself. This is a friendly group and very supportive.
Sorry you feel alone and neglected by your family. I know how hard that can be, especially if you also do not like where you live. However, you are loved. God does have a plan for us and even though we do not see it he always loves us. This blog is one of the places you can be provided with support and someone to talk to when needed. However, the best place in my opinion is a Bible driven church. Do you go to church? Finding a church that works for you not only provides you with activities you can do with others, but also there is so much love and support there. I have seen it change lives of individuals and families as you invest time in church and with the Lord. The church becomes an extension of your biological family. I truly pray for you to be connect with others for friendship, peace and joy in your heart, the rebuilding of your family unit, and the closeness and love God can provide to you.
I am glad to hear about the impending move towards Buffalo. It is a chance to break out of your 'prison' so to speak. Only problem is ... the same problem you have now. This situation will follow you to the next one if something doesn't change. I suggest you address the mental health profession for the anxiety complex.