Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Like I said, .. I hope you and he can come to some kind of mutual compassion. If not .. you need to find the support you need.
I don't know how long you two have been together but it seems like a long time. There must be some compassion within him. I hope you can 'talk it out' and get things on a supportive arrangement.
Do you live in a larger city? I only ask because most bigger areas have a suprising number of support groups, usually the meetings are held at churches or hospitals. If that's an option, it might be a great place to meet some people who share your troubles, I'm sure they would be very supportive.
Best wishes and big hugs.