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two of my friend who I considered really good friends are mad at me and ignoring me and I'm really upset about it. I mean, I may be overreacting, but my anxiety is acting up because of it. I feel nauseous and start shaking when I think about it. The situation is this:
We went to an anime convention last weekend. My boyfriend was driving everyone. I told my friends the night before (they are dating and live together) we would be leaving my house around 8:45 to start picking people up, and we'd probably be at their house at around 9:30. An extra person ended up needing a ride, so even though we left the house at 8:45 we were late going to their house. They called me really upset, saying they were going to ride with someone else and meet us there. I said that was fine. They called again when they got there, saying the con couldn't find their preregistration badges and that it was my problem because I sent in the form. I had picked up my badge with no issue so I had no idea what was going on. They ended up finding them, the day continued. We split up so we could all do what we wanted for various activities. They were mad again later because they wanted to go get food and I was in a workshop. Then they wanted to leave and they couldn't go with their ride because of them left their jacket in my bf's car. I had just gotten into the vendors market (which there was along line for) so I looked around first which made them pissy. Finally, they wanted to go back for the rave at 11 but my bf was tired and it would be alot of driving to go pick everyone up and bring everyone home again so he said no. Since then, they won't talk to me, been ignoring my texts and apparently were bad mouthing me to mutual friends.
I really feel like shit because a lot of what happened was out of my control. I asked them if everything was ok and they won't talk to me or anything. They are having a party tmm which I am still planning on going to.My bf says I should act like I don't care or don't know they are mad at the party and they'll probably follow suit, and if they are really friends they'll get over it.
But I'm worried about it because I'm socially awkward and I don't have alot of friends so they mean alot to me. I don't want to lose some of the only friends I have :'( What should I do? They won't even answer my txts when I asked about what I should bring to the party, which makes me feel like I shouldn't even go. I don't know :(
We went to an anime convention last weekend. My boyfriend was driving everyone. I told my friends the night before (they are dating and live together) we would be leaving my house around 8:45 to start picking people up, and we'd probably be at their house at around 9:30. An extra person ended up needing a ride, so even though we left the house at 8:45 we were late going to their house. They called me really upset, saying they were going to ride with someone else and meet us there. I said that was fine. They called again when they got there, saying the con couldn't find their preregistration badges and that it was my problem because I sent in the form. I had picked up my badge with no issue so I had no idea what was going on. They ended up finding them, the day continued. We split up so we could all do what we wanted for various activities. They were mad again later because they wanted to go get food and I was in a workshop. Then they wanted to leave and they couldn't go with their ride because of them left their jacket in my bf's car. I had just gotten into the vendors market (which there was along line for) so I looked around first which made them pissy. Finally, they wanted to go back for the rave at 11 but my bf was tired and it would be alot of driving to go pick everyone up and bring everyone home again so he said no. Since then, they won't talk to me, been ignoring my texts and apparently were bad mouthing me to mutual friends.
I really feel like shit because a lot of what happened was out of my control. I asked them if everything was ok and they won't talk to me or anything. They are having a party tmm which I am still planning on going to.My bf says I should act like I don't care or don't know they are mad at the party and they'll probably follow suit, and if they are really friends they'll get over it.
But I'm worried about it because I'm socially awkward and I don't have alot of friends so they mean alot to me. I don't want to lose some of the only friends I have :'( What should I do? They won't even answer my txts when I asked about what I should bring to the party, which makes me feel like I shouldn't even go. I don't know :(
PLEASE DON'T LET YOURSELF GET ILL OVER THEIR WRONG ACTIONS! Take care,, many calming hugs.
you feel bad. If they are ignoring your texts about their party - you might
want to seriously consider how much of their crap you want to put up with.
They seem to be determined to punish you about things, as you said, that you had no control over.
Sending you good thoughts.
I keep thinking about your friends and how I was treated the same way years ago. I don't miss those people and I really don't care what they are doing. The last thing I need in my life is negativity. We have to deal with enough of it on a daily basis. I hope you are doing better. Hugs GB