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kailajo318 01/19/2015

So I have been fighting with an old friend because she's jealous that I have a new friend. She decides to start posting everything on social media calling me stuff like a "bitch" saying that "I'm fake" and "immature" and she is saying it's all my fault we're fighting. Then she goes and makes a video and posts it talking about that I'm cyber bullying her (which I am not) and then proceeds to call me "a worthless piece of shit". I feel so done right now. I want to give up. There's no purpose for me since I'm a worthless piece of shit....

ZAZAS 01/19/2015

Can you report her to the web master of the social site? I know how it hurts to have a friend turn on you. Just don't stoop to her level. Show everyone you are the better person and don't respond.

gramybear 01/19/2015

I hate to say this but I think your ex friend is extremely toxic and has some very serious issues that she needs help with. I hope you will stay far away from this girl. You don't deserve that in your life. Hugs

ThePepperMan 01/19/2015

The only thing you should consider yourself being done with is your old friend.

I was one of 3 guys coaching a team, and I thought we were all good friends. Then I realized that the other 2 guys were doing a lot of stuff together without me. It hurt, but life goes on. Sounds like your old friend is very jealous and is not taking it well. I agree with Gramy, she is toxic to you.

And by all means do report her to the site monitors. But do NOT tell her that you have done so, that will only encourage her to act worse. This is one time where taking the high road is not only the best way, it is about the only positive way for you!

Your profile says that you are 19, so it sounds like you are either just done with high school or close to it. Her behavior is very high school clique like. No, make that JUNIOR high clique like.

You are not worthless, you are evolving from your teenage self to your young adult self and you have hit a bump in the road. I watched my children and their friends deal with that. Some did it easier than others, some got their feelings hurt more than others.

Gentle hugs

blackhawkdown 01/19/2015

and now from a legal stand point....
!!!!!CALL THE POLICE cyber crimes division!!!!!
She call publically defamed you and posted a video to prove it. This is classed as cyber bullying and is illegal. IMO SHE is the piece of shit!!
((( just sayin )))

zoidberg 01/19/2015

Isn't social media just great? People can make other people's lives miserable without ever doing it face to face now. Like others have said she is toxic so I would stay away from her and ignore her too as hard as that might be. I would also check into the laws where you are at about cyber bullying too. And finally you are not a worthless and don't let anyone tell you different.

WallyBear 01/20/2015

Honey, She Was Never Your Friend. She Sounds More Like A Stalker.
She Wants You All To Herself And If She Can't Have You,Then She Is Prepared To Try To Reek Havoc On Your Life.
Don't Let Her!

You Are A Wonderful Person And Sadly, She Is Not.

((((HUGS)))) And Love

kailajo318 01/21/2015

Thank you guys for your comments

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