i had a long distance relationship for two years had its ups and downs threw out it. i finaly decided since my anxiety was getting way better i was feeling great that i should get on the track to finding a job. we ended up breaking up cause she didnt want to wait 9 months for me to go to school or see a job would fit in with our relationship so we both agreed it was better to go our seperate ways. a week later she hits me up and says a guy sexually assaulted her, i was torn apart, i hit my heavy bag for 30 minutes because there was nothing i could do, i helped her threw it and talked her threw why it wasnt her fault and how these things just happen, she still not wanting to be in a relationship stops talking to me for a week. a week later hits me up and says she found some one else and that she does not need to explain the situation but she will, and goes on a story of how she met this guy who well she unknowingly ended up using as a rebound and later found out was just using her as well. i blocked her eveyrwhere told her i would never speak to her agian but 5 days later she emailed me a bunch of times and called me a bunch of times sent me text messeges, saying how sorry she was and how it was all her fault i felt bad so i decided to talk to her again, not realising she was only feeling guilty for what she did and was still currently with the guy she had just found. i told her i would not talk to her if she kept talking to him, so she broke up with him at least i dont know maybe she did. she started demanding certian things like i be there more for her cause i was never there for her when she needed, its partialy true partialy not. i have things to do during the day ya know. i stayed home all day when she needed to talk threw her problems and then, a few days later i asked her if she was still talking to that guy, she said yes. i blocked her everywhere again and i am feeling like shit because of this hole situation, now im alone and the only person who ever helped me was her. now i need her but she is not there. :( two years and im am alone again.