Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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computerone 05/20/2018

just feel so alone have moved out of state with husband and in-laws thought i woud be happy but i find my self depressed and wanting to cry. have no alone time. need time for myself

Greenteam 05/20/2018

I moved from Florida to Georgia. Life in Georgia was bitter sweet. In talking to my doctor he explained to me that moving is one of the most stressful events you can put your body and mind through. If you need time to yourself then you must make time for yourself. I'm not suggesting that you alienate those close to you, but tell them that your going walking or jogging by yourself or that your going to take a drive by yourself. Wanting to cry? Go ahead and let the tears flow, but then do something for yourself. Happy? That comes after you do things by yourself. You might even enjoy your time with your in laws and your husband more.

SimpsonsOK 05/20/2018

Green is so on target. We forget that whenever we go to the next room, we leave the one we were in behind. it will get better once everyone settles down a bit. Healing hugs.

AnaOliver 05/20/2018

It took me 3 years to get used to the place I live now. But it does not have to take so much time for you. It will get better. Hang in there.

computerone 05/20/2018

thanks for all the help. I have suffered with depression most of my life. I just want to cry all the time. don't know why i cry, am tired of them trying to tell me how to do things, and when i say something she gives me a snotty answer. i wish i never took them here with us. His sisters cause a lot of trouble they tell them a lot of things that they should have nothing to say about, Now her daughter and her son and his wiife and baby are comin out for the holiday.. I just dread the time they are here, I know i will probably say something I shouldn't but lately i can't shut my mouth. Thank God my husband is on my side.

Onlythelonely 05/21/2018

Yes, I agree with Green, moving is one of the most stressful events. It will take time. Be patient with yourself and since your husband is on your side, explain to him your need to just work things out on your own. I think he will respect your wishes. It sounds like you need to set up some healthy boundaries with your in-laws. Have you heard of the book Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud? It has been very helpful to me.
Also, regarding your depression. I also have battled depression most of my adult life. The book Happy Women Live Better by Valorie Burton has been a big help.

computerone 05/21/2018

thanks for all your helpmade me feel a little better

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