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I think the thing that hits me the hardest is when he talks about his ex, and how much better she is than me, and just everything that has to do with her. It hurts, I had to leave his room because I saw him paint her name on something and it just really sucks, I don't know anymore. I just want to fix everything I've ruined..
Third response attempt; I am very confused. Are you talking about your husband, and his ex? Who is this person that you are talking about?
And you say 'when we were separated he was seeing someone'. That confuses me too. Over here, separation is 2 yrs and would not normally mean seeing other people per se. Would mean stepping away from each other for a while to get some space.
My gut feel is your husband's being an adolescent dick. If he doesn't want to be with you, he should fuck right off, shouldn't he. If he does want to be with you, then he can be quiet about fantasy girl.
And he needs to grow up enough to realise that her having a fling with a married man is not the same as her saying he's marriage quality for her. Honestly the guy sounds very childish. But as I say I don't know what you did first to set him off.
Do you want to talk about it or is that too personal?
I am clearly having a blonde day. I just don't see the issue. Except, perhaps, why the heck are you two back together? I mean, dreamer boy seems clearly to fancy his other girlfriend so why did he hook back up with you? I'd say she gave him the kick.