Sometimes I feel that way, but feelings are not reality. Give it time. Give it hope. Sometimes we need to search and search until we find even when one person we can connect with at a deeper level.

Don't give up. And don't avoid situations which may create opportunities to connect with others. Otherwise it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Forgive yourself. Be compassionate to yourself.

We are all the masters of our own fate. Taking your own life is the hopeless route out. It sucks to be alone, believe me I know, 30 years old, no kids, no job. Unsuccessful, blue collar, low class. I could go on forever, but those are labels and constructs that are made up in this world. Look at the stars, take in the beauty and know that we all live on the same crap of a planet with the same jaded people, its just your personal will power that will show you what separates the happy from the sad is how we handle rejection.

In my own way I have felt the way you are describing many times. I take meds, do talk therapy, and pray, and for me anyway this helps a lot. It is also important to have a good connection with at least one person. A friendship can accomplish miracles. If the people around you don't understand you, that is their problem not yours. Perhaps there is a support group you can join, or you can run an ad seeking a friend. If you didn't have a purpose, you wouldn't be here. You are a good person with a lot to offer; one thing about depression is that it can make people more sensitive and empathetic to others. Find a way to share your gifts. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Whenever the storm clouds pass over, I am glad to be alive, and I know you will, too.

I feel that way a lot and I know it is exhausting to keep going on. I know nothing I can say will really help, but I do hope you feel a little better today.

Neo you're really down, but I bet if we really unpacked it it could boil down to a few things:

1. you're lonely;
2. you're considerate and caring;
3. you're far too sensitive!

You're a great guy. So what if you upset someone today? ffs. You're a cool dude and tomorrow comes around and everyone forgets. Everyone forgets. whatever you did or said today it will get forgotten the moment the next guy does some dumbass thing.

Tell me about what makes you a weirdo. Everyone young thinks they're a weirdo. Everyone who isn't a conformist feels excluded and isolated - but what you have to do is hang out with other nonconformists. You need to find your kind.

Please don't die. I like you, and I will feel shit. And I don't generally say that to people who threaten to off themselves. Generally I will hand them a rope and teach them how to tie a noose. So you know I mean it. Don't off yourself. Just write that idea out of the script and start looking for other solutions.

You're lonely and you're unhappy and we've all either been there, or are still there. it just means you haven't found your place in the world yet. Keep looking, because when you do it's worth it.

xx

Although feelings are important, they are temporary and will change over time. Most often, when we compare ourselves to others, there will always be things we wish we had or there will be something we can't connect with; so then, we begin to feel hopeless. But everyone has struggles. Each and every one of us. You're not alone!

We may not be able to see a reason or purpose in our own life, but there are many people who have had your same thoughts who would be more than willing to share their personal stories with you. Again, you are not alone. There may be a group in your local community or in a local church that would be more than happy to listen. I wish you the best.