Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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A_Whole_New_Me_2017 09/10/2017

Helping others with their struggles even though I am dealing with way too much.... it feels good. I love to make people smile and laugh and when I hear I've inspired someone, it touches my heart in a way where I know my job here is not finished it has just began. Tonight I made friends with a young girl, has some issues, but it feels so good to be able to have such a huge impact on someone's life. And for them to fight because of me.... this is living. This is purpose. This is my calling. I went from suicidal to FINALLY ok. In one night. I'm going into social work to pursue this dream. I'm going to be ok everything will work out.

ReaDyO 09/11/2017

Heck yes, I really like the name too. Take this calling and enjoy your purpose I feel the same happiness helping others as well. Matter of fact I am starting a group for people with anxiety and depression to do some community service. Make someone feel like they have a purpose and like they have control over something. Lose themselves in someone other than themselves.

A_Whole_New_Me_2017 09/11/2017

THANK you! Will do so :) I'm proud of you for finding your way :)

TrappedinMaya 09/11/2017

and then there was light.... =) very happy for you!!

A_Whole_New_Me_2017 09/11/2017

Thank you!!

Onlythelonely 09/11/2017

So happy for you. I found that too. When i'm helping others, it gets the focus off me and my feelings. Before I know it, I don't feel depressed.

lonewolf1011 09/11/2017

I don't know what's wrong with me I'm so angry I used to be so calm my boyfriend told me to go get help and give us space until I prove to him I'm the girl he fell in love with

A_Whole_New_Me_2017 09/11/2017

Lonewolf1011 Anger is a pain coping mechanism... and unfortunately is something out of our control. Getting help, and digging beyond it to the root of it and perhaps some therapy, doing things you enjoy, hanging out with people you love, perhaps that's a good first step :) feel free to message me anytime

lonewolf1011 09/11/2017

i dont know how to go with the flow anymore its like i need everything to go my way how do i fix that

A_Whole_New_Me_2017 09/11/2017

First step is admitting you have a problem, you've done this, good job! Second is now to accept change, face the fear instead of running from it, and start talking right down to the roots..... you would be surprised what a difference it can make

djchurn 09/11/2017

I have talked to a couple of thousand hospital patients over the past 5 years and it has been therapeutic. However, be prepared to meet people that need help yet push you away. Gaining skill in how to connect them takes experience. Happy and productive trails.

sharaninmd 09/11/2017

Congratulations, I am glad you found your purpose.

A_Whole_New_Me_2017 09/11/2017

Thank you for the encouragement and advice
Aww thank you

bridgie101 09/12/2017

How we handle ourselves during highs will either dissipate our motivational force (as you have just done) or increase it. You have to hold on tight to your joys in silence the same way as your woes: they increase the size of your capacity and you retain the motivational power to do something about them.

If you find you are really enthusiastic and tell everyone about your enthusiasm, and then find you don't actually do the thing you were enthusiastic about - this is why. You've spent the collateral necessary to make the event take place. Be more selfish. hold it tight to yourself. Your precioussss.

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