Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Kingsolomon66 01/02/2019

I'm new to this site but not new to depression. I have spent some time reading many of your posts and the pain you are feeling, especially this time of year. But can I humbly please say...It's just another day.

I know that many hurt from loss or loneliness and can i start by honestly saying Happy New Year! I myself spent mine alone in the litreal middle of nowhere staring at a Oil well. I had a bit of hope that at 11:58 when i pulled up to the well another truck was there and i thought I'd at LEAST get to say 'Happy New Year' to SOMEONE, but the guy just got in his truck and drove away! But it did make me think why it was so important just to say it and just to hear it. That little shake of myself probably really helped. Instead of saying i am alone, i have no one while others i know do, remebering New Years past and wondering about tommorrow and if it can get worse. I just shrugged and said it's just another day.

But also i saw the incredible value of communication. I was still depressed but that little bit pulled me through and got me to realize i needed help to improve this year so that my chances of having a better 2020 New year are better. So I got up, called a therapist and made an appointment, then found this sight to start communicating with others. I read many of your posts and replied where i felt i could speak. Many others, just reading gave me a better understanding I am not alone and GOOD PEOPLE, yes, you are good people who need a little help at times and are compassionate enough to give it.

So I want to create a new holiday for us...Happy 'It's just another day' and on this holliday, Janurary 2nd. the tradition is to just tell a joke to someone and get a laugh. so my joke is..

What did the fish say when he hit the wall.....Damn!

Please feel free to post your joke... i really like to laugh

sonnycamehome 01/02/2019

I appreciate your positive outlook :)

Sometimes each day can be really difficult when you're depressed, and you just get through it minute by minute. It becomes more than just another day. Sometimes getting through a day becomes a huge accomplishment and something to be proud of!

Brooke911 01/02/2019

Welcome to this site! You will see that everyone is here for everyone and very supportive. I myself have struggled with depression all my life. Some days are hard. Some days are easy. Something I have always kept telling myself is that " It will get easier," " It will be ok." I think I repeat " It will be ok" a lot to myself in my head. I like coming here because I like to think that I am making life long friends and people that understand what we are going through better than some others. Cheers to an amazing and smashing 2019! This WILL be our year!

Brooke911 01/02/2019

As far as a joke : What happens when Batman doesn't pay his light bill?

It's going to be a dark night! haha!

Imnotalone 01/03/2019

Love the idea of "It's just another day" holiday. I also love the way you have managed to handle the down side of New Year's. It is definitely a hard day for many as are the holidays in general. I also agree sonnycamehome in that some days it's more than just another day but it's getting through minute by minute. But even when it's getting through minute by minute during the course of a day then you've made it through the day! Either way... an accomplishment to be grateful for. Oh, and here's my joke:

You know why you never see elephants hiding up in trees?
Because they’re really good at it.

Osheana 01/07/2019

Ha ha lol cute one imntalone!

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