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I'm so confused. I feel like I'm a warm, kind person. And I haven't had a lot of luck and attracting the kind of things and people that I desire and want despite efforts I've made in the past.
Do you ever wonder about the kind of energy you put out unconsciously? Even though you think that you're okay and aren't putting out negative Vibes but yet you still seem to attract negativity when it comes to people, situations and life in general?
I don't know if it's about energy so much as it's about boundaries.....what do you guys think? Some people you give an inch and they take a mile.
Lilly23, if I may ask, what is it your wanting to attract that you're not attracting? What kind of efforts are you referring to? I'm not sure if I'm speaking to what you're speaking to.
Honey luck is lazy at times, and very slow; I lose patience way to soon when expecting it :-). And I understand how confusing things may be for you at times. At least you are trying to stay kind and that's the best that you can do. And to answer your question: yes, sometimes I wonder what my energy vibes are putting out. However, I don't think about this for hours on in. I guess the short time of thought is only narrowed down now to a few seconds in a moment, and not deep thinking, which I'm over that way. And getting to this point of peace took me many years to develop the skill. So when negativity shows up, on the doormat, I rewrite the picture in my own perspective; I balance the thoughts to represent what the positive side could look like as pleasing to me. In better words, I express my own thoughts of acceptance of others' behaviors as a sign of love for which that negative influence(r) may have express in a more calm and gentle way. Get the meaning? I really try to see the good in others rather than the not so good. Life is way too important to waste good energy trying to figure what we can never change, which is the way others behave toward us. We are only human.
I hope for you a fascinating life real soon. Do keep exploring the possibilities. You have insightful vibes yourself, and one day the clues to attracting the kind of people you desire to mingle with will all of a sudden pile up, flowing freely, causing you much joy. Believe it. Just know that your own heart is so tender and humble and a fascinating one at that. We are blessed to have you here on earth for a wonderful example. Nice!
Many warm hugs to you today!