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Is it worth it

nikeroley23
nikeroley23
I really feel like whats the point of living when you really have nothing to live for. As I sit here I really believe that there is no point anymore. Can someone really recover from a breakup, You point all you have into it, or make that decision finally with someone you have been with for so long to find out that they are nothing more than a coward and cheater. You plan your life to be with someone and this is what they do to you...They spit on you like your nothing. Why would you want to ever go through something like that again. I have never been so hurt in all my life.. For the first time I really thought that I met the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and this is how they treat me. Life sucks I tell ya. Is it really all worth it in life?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes it is worth it. Put it this way are they worth ending yourself for? I doubt it. Its hard but learn from it and try not to hold in the pain for the next person.
deleted_user
deleted_user
it is very hard and traumatizing sometimes (esp. since you have been cheated on) to recover from a break up.

i'll tell you that when i got hurt really badly so many years ago that i had to make a conscious effort not to think of the person and what he did. that was just making the pain horrible.

years later, i don't really think of it, except out of the blue sometimes, and it still hurts a little that he just moved on and found someone else to be with. but through the grapevine, i've heard there are some nice guys out there.

good luck
deleted_user
deleted_user
Breakups are always hard and emotionally draining. When my last BF broke up with me, I took some time off just to work on myself. It was the first time I had ever just been single, and I found I didn't need a man to complete myself. Soon after, I met the love of my life. Keep your chin up!
nikeroley23
nikeroley23
Thanks for your info all of you, I really feel as though I have no idea who I am anymore. Can someone who calms that care about you be so mean, Thanks for listening to me vent, it just hurts so deeply and bad, I dont wish this kind of pain on anyone.
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