Cleric......... you can say whatever you feel...... that is what the board is for....... you are not an idiot.....you are missing your ex and feeling alone...... that's how you feel, so that's what you need to post. Your feelings are valid ........ I am sorry you are feeling bad....... and I do hope you feel better soon....... Reach out....... there are alot of great people here....... who will support you... I'm glad you are here.......it's not about saying the right or wrong thing....... it's about sharing and asking for support when you need it.............

big big hugs to you.............


(((((((((((((( hugs )))))))))))))

Gaye

>>I can't figure out for the life of me how to use these boards.

Maybe by example??

Looks to me like you're using them just fine...

And I think a lot of people come here when you do. When we're down, we want to be around people who get it. For many of us, that doesn't leave a lot of real-life options, and so here we are.

I wish I knew more of what was going on so I could offer some less generic sounding advice, but all I can say is that I'm sorry you're hurting. You're definitely not alone in feeling like an angry idiot, I feel that way a lot, and it sucks. But it'll pass.

If you don't have plans, maybe it's not such a bad idea to sleep it off...maybe put in a movie you love and try and cheer yourself up while you fall asleep?

Hugs and peace

you know , youre not alone I come on here and read posts and I want to help but I dont know what to say to help. so then I feel like an idiot. but Im glad your here. this is the place there are so many people here that give such good advice. I think its just good for me to read and hear what others say. . be good to yourself . your worth it. **HUGS**

Say what you want when you want and hopefully it makes you feel better..

.. So here's MY random comment for this random comment thread. You know those whirly-gig things that come off of trees? THey annoy me, so much so that I'd like to stand under the tree and whack them all into next week with a ping pong paddle but I won't. I wanna though.

I feel like an idiot most of the time but that's o.k. as long as I love others and treat them with respect that's all that matters! You are just fine by me and that is what this site is for!!!!!!! You are awesome! Randy

Ehh, do what you will. Just say what is on your mind....check out my WASPS! post. It is completely off topic and random(but that's just me *RANDOM MAN*) just something that hyped me up and I wanted to tell it to anyone who would listen. I have no one else off of the internet who cares to listen to me ramble so I put it here for an interesting read. IF you are up, down or even sideways then just say something if you feel like it. You are bound to get a response and may give people a topic to talk about or even get a few chuckles on the way.