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Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Itzjustme 07/13/2009

Ok so i was looking at past post in the SA forum and i came across one that i related to soo much! im actually rly glad i did b/c this has been bothering me since it started...ok the person wrote about how ofcourse they didnt want any of it but ther body reacted a different way..u know? how a bodt responds to sex...and so yea i was reading the replies amd they were good replies...i felt like i lied to my therapist...i told her i never liked wat was happening? thats not wat my body was saying but my head was yelling for him to leave me alone...i want to tell my therapist but i dont wanna seem like im a liar snd liked wat was happening...but i wanna tlk to her about it...idkkkk wat to do ..help me plzz!

deleted_user 07/13/2009

I saw a thing on tv that said that that was really normal. I would think you're therapist would really appreciate the turn around...It doesn't make you dishonest at all. If anything, the fact that you realized that about yourself means you're probably being pretty honest and putting forth and honest attempt to get better...Sometimes people's brains can lie to themselves and ya dont even know it when it's happening....I think it just means you weren't ready to deal with it yet...and now you are. Or maybe you just didn't trust her enough to share that with her and now you are.....I would take it as an opportunity to discuss it and keep moving foward with your therapist (: Congradulations, I say! Good job!

WanderingVet 07/13/2009

I swear to you, .. the truth ALWAYS works. You tell her that you have something to say now that you were unable to say earlier. She will understand, ... completely!!! They (therapists) have 'heard it all' and this is very likely NOT something she has heard before.

I understand your concern, .. I promise you it will be OK. It is important to be completely honest with your therapist. They are trained to handle and manage just about ANYTHING.

WanderingVet 07/13/2009

I would think it is extremely normal. In SIMPLE terms, sex USUALLY feels good. Believe me, a therapist understands this.

WanderingVet 07/13/2009

not something she HASN'T heard before ... sorry.

Itzjustme 07/13/2009

Thank you guys....im feeling very nervous my stomach hurts and stuff...my dad said no therapy over the summer..so idk

deleted_user 07/13/2009

A woman's body reacts to the act of sex.(.usually ) whether the saex is for pleasure, or forced. Please don't feel guilt about this hun..do talk to your therapist about it hun..he/she will understand why you initially didn't tell the truth about it... Hugs xxx

Itzjustme 07/13/2009

i'll try to tell her, if my dad lets me go to her...idk y this is making me sick to my stomach, but im better i took a nap :)

Itzjustme 07/13/2009

who else feels/ felt like this? what did you do about it? how did u tell someone?

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