It can help to explain your frustration; share that you are trying to communicate but are having a hard time. Maybe the other people can help you such as by asking clarifying questions.

That’s the thing they don’t try they just get mad and then refuse to talk to me I just keep on screwing up

Thats really the way you look at yourself through their eyes.

You see, I though my h7sbsnd was always mad at me. That he goes out of his way. To find things I did wrong. Even this evening.
He went golfing today. Im dude he enjoyed that. Then he went to the casino. I can always tell how well he did by thr way he treats me. If he looks for things to gripes about, he had a bad day. If he jokes and laughs, he had a good day. I'm stuck at home because I'm handycapped. And highly likely to catch the virus if exposed. This is always HIS excuse. Yes it hurts me. But im learning to adjust.
What I'm trying to say is that it is very seldom something you did.
They might not even be thinking of you. Thats just the way they answer. And you take it way personal.
Not trying to fuss at you. Just trying to point out that its not always you. Sometimes its them.
Let's comnect.

Try a method of communicating called "direct communication" which involves voicing your content clearly and concisely without euphemism or allusion, combined with "active listening" which is where the listener repeats back what they think the speaker was trying to convey. If there are any discrepancies, work them out then and there. Then repeat the process. Over time, you will learn how to automatically speak and interpret more fluidly based on your experiences with those you interact with.

Think about how to speak to people and work on change, if that is the case. I personally think its your perception on how you think you are. One of the main reasons why people are mad is a bad day. You should keep communicating with others but focus on you and your needs. Love others, love yourself.