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I'm really struggling .

AnonymousUserGirl908
AnonymousUserGirl908

I just recently got out of a relationship where I had been treated like absolute shit after giving my all to this other guy . He really did not appreciate me and he would constantly see this other girl at school behind my back . So then this guy I was dating has a cousin . A cousin of his that I met last year and within a minute of glancing at the cousin I really fell inlove . I mean . I swear . So the cousin and I had thing amazing thing that bought me back to life before I tried commiting suicide last year . For like 17 days we talked on this thing called WhatsApp . Then he left so unannounced I was left so lost and empty .Didn't really know what to do . So then I started doing back things cause I had experienced my first heartbreak . So nine months later this cousin is back never even tried to find me . We have a good connection but I am really scared and he tells me not to doubt him .


scottyb865
scottyb865
if you check back on my profile at a few my post itll explain a little more but relationship are a major pain and alot of us are going similar situtations. i had to end a 12yr relationship due to cheating and lieing from my ex. sadly enough it mainly happened while i had been locked up and alot also at the start of the relationship. People can only take so much then we lose trust in people then its even harder to get back with some one after all that even finding someone new due to the fact of your trust being lost and it causeing more problems for the person that was done wrong. My point is love really isnt something to try and dive head first into. Love is something that needs time and i thought i loved and was loved so many times in the past but i was wrong it wasnt love at all. So really give it some time before picking your true love as fast cause when the trutht comes out at the end well...... Its easier to handle just losing a bf or gf than someone you might think your in love with. It need time to show and takes longer finding out if the rite one or not . just give it some thought and also give it tiime to show .....a person cant force another to love it the other doesnt love in return.
Avidreader9559
Avidreader9559
I agree with the pp. Relationships take time. If you enjoy being around this guy and you have good conversations, you can enjoy that time. I would say don't be quick to give your heart and your emotions to someone. Love does take time to develop-learning to think of the other person, respecting them, doing things for them and them for you.. Sometimes people only do that when it is convenient, but if someone really likes you, those characteristic will develop over time. I would also suggest that you also make sure that you like who you are, that you do things that make you happy, that you continue to grow in spite of what anyone else chooses to do. We can not find happiness in other people alone because they are human and will let us down at some point. You deserved to be respected, loved, and cared for in your relationships. If someone is not willing to treat you like that, then maybe they are not the one for you. Hugs for you.