It's one friend. I know you're hurting badly right now, it sure seems the appropriate response to betrayal. At this point all you can do is give yourself time to heal. Maybe it's for the best you can't communicate with your ex-best friend right now. Don't spin your wheels trying to fix a relationship with someone who refuses to talk to you now. It might not even be forever. Give it time.

I am sorry to hear of the hurt that you are feeling. Betrayal is never fun. The closer you are to the betrayer the harder it is. I am glad that you are talking to your school counselor. Talking to a licensed counselor who can help you work through things is generally a good idea. Your school counselor is right though,despite the pain hang in there. There can be so much more to your story. Saying a prayer for you.:)

Thanks :)

You're born alone and you'll die alone. Be careful, as you go through life, to chalk the right lessons up to the right things.

For instance: it's easy and quick to put down your friend for 'betraying and leaving' you. But how much of the story is that? What did you do to her, just before she betrayed and left you?

You are the one person in the world you have to live with for the rest of your life: so be careful to ensure you are as straight with yourself as you possibly can be. Lie your head off to the rest of the world if you must, but never, ever, ever let yourself deceive yourself.