Someone cares. I do. Sorry to hear about your run of bad luck but it can't run forever. So keep going your luck will change. Keep your resilience up. When the BS happens just sit back and smile and know that you will beat this and you will survive.

Ok, I'll bite.

What's wrong with your car? How can I help?

What’s wrong with your pet?

Well my tire is losing air and I dont have the money to fix it, my dog has a uti, my and my ex broke up 3 weeks ago, it's just one thing after another

I don't know why your ex broke up with you. If you did something that he didn't like or found a dealbreaker, or whether he just not into you. If it number 1 reason, you can try not to do it again.to someone else, it may hurt, time will heal the hurt. If he wasn't that in to you it may have been a blessing for you to find someone who really is in to you. We don't k ow because you didn"t say. Try and watch TV show you like, or do an activity you like now or once did. Can you borrow money from some source to help with the repair on car and your pet bill? Can you get extra work to do at your job if your employer (overtime)? Can you get a part-time job? Can you take public transportztion?

Personally I was bullied when I was young but then had a son who had a wonderful childhood and I have achieved some financial success. Perhaps if you can post some of the challenges you have people can provide advice.

Please do not try to tackle the whole thing, just work to take steps to incrementally improve things. Have I done things a little better, helped solve a problem. Good luck and there are people here willing to use whatever knowledge they have to help.

How about parents? Siblings? Aunts/uncles/cousins? How about getting to know some of your co-workers? But yes, I can appreciate the loneliness. I have some good friends and still feel very much alone sometimes. When I first moved here for the job, I only knew a very few people at work. I used to dread the weekends. How crazy is that? Friday evening arrives and I couldn't wait until Monday.

On the tire, if the leak is in the tread (and not the sidewall) then its a pretty cheap fix to put a plug in the tire. Stop at a tire store and ask what it would cost. I'll bet less than $10. If its a bead leak they will have to remount the tire and if its an old tire, then they may not be willing to for safety reasons. If the hole is in the sidewall, the tire has to be replaced for safety reasons.

I'm sorry about your pet. How about calling some local animal shelters and ask about low cost vet care? Tell them about the UTI and that you are low income. They may be able to connect you with a vet for cheap.

Pessimisticoptimist, I am sorry that you are finding yourself in such an aggravating situation. I know the One who cares more than any other. He will not keep you from frustrations, because that is the way we grow, but He does promise to never leave you nor forsake you. His name is Jesus Christ, He is the Son of God, He died on a cross for YOU; He offers you salvation, everlasting life and abundant life! He is your Creator, the Creator of all things - all you have to do is call on Him. If you would like to talk any more with me about Jesus, please feel free to reach out. I am praying for you!

when I first started reading this I thought I wrote it. so yes, I understand and care. the problem is it's just online but I find it to help some. it sucks that we can't find good support in the real world. until then, come here and we'll talk. take care of yourself. xoxox Anna

I think life varies, I was unpopular as a kid, bullied, but then got married and had a child who was very popular, had some financial and other success. Part of this was hard work, pushing myself, and part luck. I think if you give yourself opportunities in life, sometime the luck can equal out though initially it doesn't seem life that.

It's hard, I have a family member who has been fired from several jobs which he attributes to bad luck, but he did not really work hard or do what he could to achieve the company's goals.