So there's a lot of you know me, I partied with a couple friends, smoked a couple bones, and that was it. Well anyway my friends gf ditched him "cause there was no future, and I partied with him (small shit-smoked a couple bones) and after he left his supposed gf knocks on the door at midnight. She's like 4'9, 100 lbs. I'm in a city--I put her up- on the couch in the front room. She's cute as a button. So she's here for a couple days (nothing happened) and she hooks up with a friend in another town for a couple days. Was worried about her and never left her in my house alone for a while. However she kinda grew on me--she a product of the foster care system, been fucked over numerous times, and could trust noone.. She came back and gathered all her shit from wherever and her welfare worker has worked there for 34 yrs. remembered me when I was in a body cast 25 yrs. ago so I got her services to a point. She likes pot but no other vices I can see except abusive relathionships- which really sucks. Why do women like the people that hurt them and take advantage of them? I don't get it. I want no relationship with this kid outside of being a friend, and seeing her get along with her life- she got a beautiful kid . I would go to the max for this kid. I guess my question is why do I care so much and would do so much for her, when I won't do the same for myself?? I've gotten sect. 8'S for 5 people now-I know people that do this as a job that have never gotten 1