I think I've written the first part of this before.  I am disabled I have Type1Diabetes, Neuropathy, Hyperthyroidism, Asthma, Depression, Anxiety, OCD, to name a few.  My youngest child who is 15 Transgender with Major Depression, Anxiety Psychosis, Morbid, OCD, to name a few. My mom is has COPD and is very emotionally abusive. My dad is currently in a nursing home after 6 hip surgeries that aren't healing because he is an Alcoholic.  My 2-year relationship seems to be falling apart. Tonight,  I happen to have  read a message that my boyfriend's brother had left him saying that it seems that my boyfriend does a lot for me, but I don't do much him.  This made me quite upset.  My boyfriend did not defend me at all. I do all of his laundry. I take care of the cleaning,dishes, straightening up the house, moping, vacuuming, litter boxes feeding all animals, making grocery lists  and organizing things.  In the winter time I cannot go out in the cold air because of my asthma. So he does the grocery shopping.  When I asked him what did he say to his brother to make him say this? He didn't have a response. He said that he's had people say to him oh you do the grocery shopping instead of her? He said that people are shocked that he's doing the shopping instead of the woman doing the shopping. I asked "Which particular person said that?"  He said "Oh I've heard different people say that" He said. "He's hears people say you work a full time job and you're the one that has to do the shopping?" and I said "Do they not realize I'm disabled?"

Please tell me what is going on here is he a meninist? I have a lot going on in my life and I need emotional support and I feel like he's just jacking me around.