Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Hi!! I’m going crazy in my head right now. It started out on thanksgiving. My friend and I had to sit at the “ kids” table. I don’t really mind sitting there. But I have had to every holiday the last few years.
I tried to join in the conversation but I was ignored. Even though ( other than my dad) I was the only one that waited for my mom. I felt extremely rejected. And I still do.
I have a lot of mental health issues other than depression. I have ptsd schizophrenia general anxiety and panic attacks.
I feel like my parents are disappointed that I have these problems. Or even embarrassed. I never get to see my extended family. Even though they come over a couple times a year.
Mom claims that she wants “ adult or grown up “ time. What am I chopped liver? I’m 37 yrs old.
My brother is coming January 3rd. With my nephew. I don’t know if I am even invited to that. I asked my brother how long he’s staying. Via text. He didn’t answer.
I haven’t seen my nephew or brother since my nephew was 4. He’s going to be 10 next year. I love him. I feel terrible about the thought that I would not be wanted there when they come.
You are who you are and as long as you try your best every day, there truly is nothing to be shameful of. Yes, much easier said than done and feelings don't often reflect fact. I'm working on this as well. This time of year can be a real drag, especially when there's any kind of psychological adversity. It's demeaning to be banished to the kid's table and to feel that parents are embarrassed of you. But here you are, alive and reaching out. Many people might turn to other unhealthy and potentially lethal coping devices. I see a lot of that as an EMT and admittedly, I take part in that poor choice too. You're not alone. Life is tough as all hell. Take pride in making it this far and take solice in knowing that you are not alone. With time and calm, open communication, a respectful
understanding may be reached by family members. If not and you've exhausted all efforts at the best of your ability, then so it goes. It may hurt, but you did your part. I don't know. I hope this helps.
I’m a Christian. I love Christmas ( the real meaning ) but it’s really stressful and I don’t like that part.
I deal with a lot of stress all year. I wish it would stop at least for Christmas.