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Itzjustme 06/14/2009

Ok so me and this boy are talking (we only text each other) and unless were not talking about sexual things he doesnt seem interested, he always text back "ok..." or "yea..." i was wondering how do i keep him interested and keep taking to me????...he does text me first though, which i like at least i know he wants to tlk to me.

deleted_user 06/14/2009

he wants to sext with you only, it seems.

why keep someone like that interested? let him go jerk off to someone else's texts/sexts

Itzjustme 06/14/2009

LOL!
ok, i guess we're just not gonna happen

deleted_user 06/14/2009

i would agree with daisy. text a boy that is interested in a little bit more and who shows you some respect.

crzychik 06/14/2009

i agree with the other people too. Usually when that's the only thing a guy wants or will talk about with you it's cause that's all he wants. (i know from experience). Just let him go.

deleted_user 06/14/2009

kick him to the curb now..... listen to me.. he is a waste....

deleted_user 06/14/2009

this is not good for you hun.....do yourself a favour and say c ya!!!

WanderingVet 06/14/2009

"i know he wants to tlk to me"

Well, .. not exactly.

deleted_user 06/14/2009

ditch him.

ThePepperMan 06/14/2009

Listen to these wise women!

If you want to try a social experiment, try texting him about anything BUT sex. If he keeps trying to bring it back to sex (as is likely) then he is bad news. But if he can be diverted, and even initiates stuff that has NO sexual overtones, then perhaps he is just learning how not to be a pig.

Friend19 06/14/2009

Short answers like that are a big clue he's not really listening. Or at least that's how men make me feel. I would say, find someone else...It shouldn't be that difficult just to get someone you like interested in having a conversation with you.

deleted_user 06/14/2009

he only wants you for one thing...let him go there are plenty of men out there their will be that one who is interested in everything you say and do no matter what.

Itzjustme 06/14/2009

Thank you guys! Very smart people! :)...i'll try to see if he'll be interested in something else other than sex if hes not then i'll start trying, i must admit tho, it is kinda fun! lol...but i just want him to be interested in me too

deleted_user 06/14/2009

If he was interested in more than just sex he would be interested in your other conversations. I've been down this road before except I was having sex with the guy and we never did anything else. It went on for years until I finally decided to stop needless to say he found a girlfriend a few months later.

Itzjustme 06/14/2009

oo Wow...sorry u met such a jerk

deleted_user 06/14/2009

=/

everyone here is so sexist.

simple solution to find another interest of his, is to ask him... dont ask the people here because if it doesnt include giving them attention, then theyre against it. if youre okay with texting sex stuff, then just keep him as a friend with benefits. doesnt mean you have to ignore him... and sex doesnt have to be a bad thing.

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he only wants you for one thing...let him go there are plenty of men out there their will be that one who is interested in everything you say and do no matter what.
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name one. just one. whos openly honestly willing to have you list their name. guys, dont apply. this is for women to respond.

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