Depression Support Group
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I have been with my wife for 10 years. She died on March 3rd. Now I have to relearn how to socialize with people, So I thought why not join a social club. I found a group in town and it seemed like it would be a good start. I went to see a movie tonight with the group and I enjoyed the company very much, But then I was asked to accompany them to a restaurant and eat. This means that I would have to talk. I said OK and I went. I was the newest member so they asked what I liked to do. I told them that I don't know. I explained about my wife and what I liked to do when we were together and what I liked to do before I was with her. I wanted this not be about my wife but she was my life for 10 years. I would like to have something to talk about besides my wife but I don't know how to do that. These people were very interesting and I wasn't . How do I get my life in a place where I feel confident enough to go out and appear to have a life.
I'm certainly not good with advice. Just be yourself which you were. As you get to know everyone you can ask about their interests. I'm so pleased to hear that you are trying to make connections.
One day at a time. Don't be too hard on yourself.
And Second I think you do a pretty good job at giving good advice.:)
First, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife. I too am proud of you for getting out there, so good for you! I am sure you weren't ' uninteresting' at all. This was a good start for you and I'm sure that in no time you will feel more comfortable . Just be yourself and you'll be fine :0)
(((((((((((((( Big Hugs )))))))))))
LMT
( yes I love my Tennessee Titans! )
I think it's great that you're out there building new connections. I think anyone would understand that someone who's just lost a spouse would be going through a giant transition, even beyond grieving. That you went out with this group is, I think, a giant step toward going out and having a life.
you mentioned that you don't know what you like to do....you might want to consider going out and trying some new hobbies on your own, like take a local art class or maybe take guitar lessons or something like that. this will help keep your mind busy and will help you learn what you like to do. :)
I am starting a new chapter In my life and with the help of you all who have commented on my multiple posts. I will make better decisions in life and therefore making my life better