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I had a long time family member visit.
she said for three weeks.
I would notice that when she drank she would turn into a bully and become very loud.
our friendship is now over and I would like to know what some of you guys think.
On her last day we were all swimming in the pool, we ordered a pizza, the guys were there's, the girls were getting there's.
I didn't want onions on mine..I said I have a fresh one in the frige and would add it.
she says to me "fuck you bitch"
i asked her to please get out of my pool.
she then said "I ain't going no where, this is not your money...this is your husbands money"
i said oh really
i ended up calling 911 and had her removed from my house to protect my self and my husband before it got way out of hand and someone would have gone to jail.
the officer told her that this was my home and if I wanted her to leave...she had to leave.
the crazy thing is she had the nerve to yell down our driveway to my husband and ask him would he pay her uber fare to the airport. I stood in front of my husband and said no.
after she left, I sent her a email tying to explain..you have never been married befor and your 59 yrs. old, no one speaks to the woman of the house in that matter. You never insult a queen in her castle. and at 59 yrs. of age who talks like that? I received an email back "fuck you bitch"
Although, this happened 1 week ago, I am still speechless, bothered, and someone depressed behnd this.
How did I open my life and home to someone who would disrepect me this way?
That being said, I'm sorry she put you through that. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Again, don't let this bother you too much. She sounds petty and unreasonable, and a person like that digs their own grave by isolating themselves from the people who care about them. She's the one who should be speechless and depressed because of what she has done, not you.
She has the issues-. Those issues do not belong to you. Just move on.
And don't worry about trying to understand - sometimes you can't understand the cra-cra of alcoholism.