Hey... it’s ok. I’m going through a breakup as well, mine was pretty bad for me too.. but I understand, after all I still wanted to be with him. I’m really sorry for what you’re going through, and well it’ll be hard to let go... I’m doing the same, and it’s really hard. The pain can be unbearable. You just need to let go.. and you believe that, I just know it’s hard to take that first step forward. I believe in you, though. And lots here feel the same and are going through the same, like me. Feel free to stick around, I’ll try to support you in any way, and I just wanna tell you it’ll all be ok at some point. The sooner you do this, you let him go, the sooner you’ll find yourself happy again, ready to stand up to the world. You’re beautiful, and I believe you can accomplish this, for many have before.

It's ok. Sometimes people that come into our life are only meant to be there temporarily. Don't beat yourself up for wanting to be with him sometimes. Time will heal. Stay strong<3

It's worse because I made the mistake that made him break up with me

hey, I've been in a relationship before when I was verbally abused. it sucks. I know you have a daughter with him, but that shouldn't stop you from being happy. growing up my parents weren't ever together, and at first it was really tough, but as I grew older I understood, and your daughter will understand your decisions to. I promise she would rather see you happy then anything. Now trust me when I say its gonna be hard to let go of him, or the thought of him, but as soon as you do, you will feel so happy and free. just remember god sends people your way either as a blessing or a lesson and he was your lesson. pain is temporary. it gets better, just got to be patient, patience is your bestfriend.

I am sorry for what you are going through. Breaking up was the best thing that could have happened. You and your daughter do no deserve to be in an abusive relationship. As time goes by the abuses worsens causing you to feel bad and depressed. I know it is hard to let go when you love someone, but you need to do what is best for you and your daughter. Please be strong and don't take him back. You deserve a better life and your daughter does not have to be a part of an abusive home.

"I don't know what's wrong with me my mind is in so many different places I'm currently in a abusive relationship and he broke up with and I hate myself because he's bad for me but he's the only person I wanna be with sometimes I wish I never meant him we always have a daughter together. I've been struggling with depression and he seems to make it worse how do I get my heart to let him go"

Wow. Lots of contradictions. Very little stability in your post. You are currently in .... yet he broke up. Are you in or out??

You hate YOURSELF because he is BAD for you. Hmmmmm.

Why would you want to be with an abuser??

"how do I get my heart to let him go"

Use your head.