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Giving up

Kas21
Kas21

Today is such a bad day my heart is broken my bf of 7 years is going away for an entire year over something so stupid...


im so scared im all alone and with him gone im going to lose everything we worked sp hard for i just wish this was not happening i wish this was all a dream but its not


it was storming out really bad today and when me and my friend were driving all i kept wishing for was to get into a car accident and be the only one who didn't make it... I know im loved i know i have responsibilities but i just want someone to end my suffering i cant be strong anymore


my entire world is falling apart and i cant do a damn thing about it why do bad things happen to me ? Why cant i just have a normal happy life already I've been through so much I'm only 21 and I've been through more than anyone should have to go through but things keep getting worse and worse I don't see things ever getting better 


Im so tired .. :(

BJAR
BJAR
Are you still up?
Greenteam
Greenteam
Problem with wanting life to end is that it probably won't and you end up worse off than before. Don't think it can get any worse? Trust me you really don't want to find out. If things were good before than you have to work that much harder to keep them that way. I agree a year is a long time, but does anyone really know where they will be a year from now? I don't. The change in your life is a big change, but you control how big a change it will be. Focus on the next thirty days. Good luck
RJW
RJW
Thank you for sharing. Heartbreak is a powerful hurt, but makes us ready to understand more genuine love and respect with trust. Sometimes we forget we need all three, because we think love is enough. You deserve the respect and that person earning your trust and feeling loved. You will find all three, then you will find no more heartbreak. You are more then worth the seeking and the finding. I hope this helped at all. Thank you and God Bless.
RJW
RJW
My apologies. I misread that completely, as you have someone that does care for you like that, so you must continue on for them. Sometimes we might not care about ourselves, but need to look at what we mean to others. You matter. Sorry about my previous reply. While true, it was wrong too. Please forgive me. God Bless.
Kas21
Kas21
Thank you all i just cant ever get a break like i try so hard to make things work for example i bought a car we spent a lot of money on it we paid for everything and then it was finally good to go but it got stolen or another thing i got a house it was so great but now the house is falling apart and thats how everything always happens no matter how good i think things are going i know that it wont last something bad always has to happen now my future husband is gone 2 its just shitty i hate it i pray i do good things i help people im nice n i do everything to try to be ok but no matter what something terrible happens to me
foreverbeach11
foreverbeach11
I'm sorry about your boyfriend and what you are going through. We will never know why bad things happen to good people. I know for me things can be wonderful and all of a sudden I hit a bump in the road. Things will not be perfect and there will be ups and downs. Try to stay strong remembering that you are loved and you have responsibilities. Have you thought about seeking counseling? Maybe a counselor would be able to help you with strategies of hope to cope and manage things when bad things happen. If possible, maybe consider maintaining contact with your boyfriend by visiting, calling or mailing letters to him. Hoping the best for you.
SimpsonsOK
SimpsonsOK
I have had a few restarts in my life. When everything collapsed, I looked at all the bad stuff that had happened to me. Finally looked at what I still did have, and what I didn't have to deal with that others did. Let me change the frame I was looking through. Life happens. We then rebuild a new life. Yes, we need to grieve our losses, but my hope for you is that you will rebuild an even better life. Healing and comforting hugs.