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Feeling down today

Lilysawyer
Lilysawyer

I'm feeling rather down today, it's the first day of Rosh Hashanah a time of reflection. I am feeling rather sad and down. I had a job offer but I didn't end up getting it. It came at a busy time, I had a friend visiting me and the holidays coming up. My friend is from Canada, she has a support system. My parents have been gone for over 20 years, I don't talk much to my brother. Nor my 25 year old nephew. He is running for city council in his area. 
I just feel so frustrated with myself. My birthday is next month, I'll be 55 years old, and while many people around me are retiring, I don't think I'll ever be able to.



I just feel like what's the use 1f622.png:'(

Chris198I
Chris198I
Hi Linda, we're here for you friend. i'm sorry you're not feeling well, and having a down day. keeping you in my prayers. i know the dark days seem like the bright days are hard to find, but you will find those better, brighter times. You're so strong too, and you're making a new path, in life, that you've been settling into :) with meeting new friends, going on sight seeing adventures, gardening, and the path you're on will lead to many more, including new job, when the opportunity arises :) You always have hope, and through the darkest of times, the bright times in recent days, will always give hope, and strength to us :) You're a great friend, and my family and i appreciate you :) keep your chin up, and always remember, you can count on us to be here :)
Big caring hugs :) our best wishes, always, sent with our love :)
sharaninmd
sharaninmd
Sorry you are going through some rough times. It is common to get a little down around the holidays. We are here for you at this site. We will try to help and offer support. Brighter days are ahead of you and a job offer will come along. Maybe you could reach out to your brother and reconnect with your family. I wish you the best.
Ladybug7
Ladybug7
I'm sorry that you're feeling so down. I know how much you've struggled with the job situation, and birthdays and holidays (especially as we age) tend to make us reflect. Chris and Sharan are right that there are better days ahead, and we're here to support you through the tough times until you get there. Big hugs!
Lilysawyer
Lilysawyer
Thanks, Guys. I really appreciate the kind words of support <3
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