that could do it. I have had very few relationships and it is really hard not to have that. I don't have it now and I totally get that. I am not one of those people who say you don't need anyone else to make yourself happy. I think people need other people, esp. romantic type love, to be truly fulfilled. but you are still young enough to find what you are looking for. so don't give up and you're not alone. write me if you want. i'm here this weekend. I think some people are going to disagree with what I am saying here but until you've been without a relationship for very long periods of time, then I don't think you truly understand how important that is.

It sounds like you’re craving some kind of close companionship that usually comes with a romantic relationship. Is your life well rounded in other areas- friends, family, work? If not, then I think it can make for a lonely life. This is the situation I’ve found myself in. There are certain comforts of a relationship that I haven’t been able to recreate elsewhere. I suppose we have to work with what we’ve got and try to find contentment. If not, it’s time to search for something new.

Hi there,

My heart goes out to you! I know what it is like to be sad.

I went through a divorce in my 30’s and ended up alone for over nine years. It was tough. I felt sad because I wanted to share my life with someone, and it just wasn’t the right time.

Are you involved in a church? I had some wonderful experiences with a group of single men and women from our church. We went to the mountains for a hike, watched movies, had pizza parties. It was just fun and a safe environment to meet people.

I hope this helps! I am sure thinking of you.