Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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aimeemarie23 04/04/2014

I'm in my second year of doing my degree and I have 3 exams coming up next month. I should really be starting to revise but I honestly can't do it... I have absolutely no motivation to do anything at all because of my depression and can barely get through doing my assignments, often leaving them until a few hours before the deadline. I'm too embarrassed to tell my tutors or lecturers about my depression so they are unaware of how much I'm struggling and I'm scared about letting my parents down by failing these exams (which are crucial if I want to get a good degree at the end of all this).
I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or advise about revising, exams, or just getting through college whilst living with depression?
Thank you X

itsjustme8 04/04/2014

I'm not sure about the UK but in the US there are counseling services at just about every university. My nephew went through a depressive episode and ended up dropping out for a bit to then go back and finish his degree. The university counselors (academic and mental health) were very supportive and guided him through the process. Do you think you are the first person to attend university and be depressed? Reach out to counselors - hopefully they exist at your university.

deleted_user 04/04/2014

4 years, 5 years, 7 years..... whatever

Just get the piece of paper (diploma) and then you are free.

Good luck

deleted_user 04/04/2014

I'm a bit in the same situation, but might or might not be related to depression. I am kind of dealing with excessive parental control which is actually quite a story that started with me getting admission into college. I have a test on Monday and I am trying to find a way to get motivated too, otherwise undesirable things could result in me getting a bad grade. Let me know if you want to talk.

McBri 04/04/2014

The hardest thing is just getting started. Once you do, most of the time you'll find the energy is there.

You have made it this far. I am sure you can continue.

gramybear 04/04/2014

Please tell your counselors what you are going through. They are there to help and I believe all schools have that kind of help. I had a counselor and had to be put in a special room when taking tests because I needed more time then others due to learning disabilities. I also suffered from depression, Fibromyalgia, and chronic pain. They all understood and helped me in every way they could. I just loved school. I could have made college a career if I could have! Hang in there, try to get some help, and don't give up on yourself. You are worth more then you are giving yourself credit for. Hugs GB

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