I am so very sorry for your loss.

I strongly urge you to seek counseling. Talk to the police, they may have community resources that they can direct you to.

Sorry, I need more time to think of more to say.

Gentle hugs

Hello so sorry for your loss,If these were your best friends, most likely their family would be happy to see you. although all people grieve differently, most people want to know others cared about their loved ones. If you feel you cannot do that send them some flowers and a heart felt card saying , that your so sorry for their loss, you loved them dearly and your here for them. Leave your name and number if you want. I would contact the internet for the area you live in there is free counselling for friends of people lost through murders and accidents. There are also some free counselling on the internet.
Do you have family and friends you can turn to and share your grief. if not there are many people here who will give you love and support. It is not easy to have to deal with. As the Pepperman said the Police have counselling for families and friends of victims, look up the Police Centre close to them it should say if they have those services. Soft gentle hugs, I pray you have someone close you can talk to where you are. Casey

So sorry you're going through this. I know how you feel because my DH was murdered 8/23/15. I agree with the others in seeking counseling/support groups/family etc. Please don't try to go through this alone. I'd like to also add if you go to the funeral maybe ask if they (the funeral home) have grief counseling as well. That's what I did. Big big hugs!

I am so sorry Angel. Yes, I echo the urge for you to seek counseling, this is such a difficult thing. there really are no words. triple hugs~

Thank you for the continued support. Right now is really hard, but it is going forward. I am thankful that I have this place, as well as the other parts of my support network. (Haven't had counseling yet, that's tomorrow.)

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and the families' loss! That is so tragic, and definitely takes time to even process and come to terms with. Sometimes the best thing to do is talk about good memories with loved ones about them. Depends on the people. If you don't feel like you can talk w them, write down all the good memories as they come to mind. The poor children! Are you able to see the kids and comfort them? It might be good for them to see friends and know they are loved and cared for. Praying for them and for all the loved ones around this tragedy and for you. What a great loss! Sometimes there is nothing to say that will make anything better, but just sit together in silence, holding each other and cry together.

Thank you everyone. I am doing a bit better after my friends' deaths. I miss them alot still, but I don't feel as sad all the time. I wanted to let everyone know that I am doing better. One of the funerals was a really big help, as it put some of the things that I found out into perspective. We still haven't had any word on the other. We have been in contact with the families, and are going to try and continue to keep in contact with them.