Hi there-

You know, there are many times I have felt that I cannot give comfort or advice. I read posts and I just don't know what to say, and then I feel bad not saying anything, but if I write something small (like *hugs* or like "hang in there" and that's it), I feel like it might come off trite. I think too much lol

Truly, why would people not value your opinion or your advice? I am sure they would, just as people do with others here. I see by some of the other stuff you said about yourself, and I would bet that it's the depression talking.

I am glad you have your husband and daughter. That helps a bit, I am sure. I am sorry you both suffer from the depression and anxiety, it certainly isn't fun.

I hope that maybe after the holidays your energy level will pick up some and that you will feel better soon! xx

that is so sad. in my opnion for what it may be worth, i believe you can contribute something to the group. just 1 small thing no matter how small it may seem can be a bid difference to someone else. i have found this out by being on here and reaching out to ppl. just a hello or a kind word is all it takes. like you i also cant stand to look at a mirror so i know what you mean by that too. another thing i used to think no one would like me either sinse i never had friends. and i still don't except on here. but on the other hand the ones i do have here are really terrific ppl and i talk to all of them reguallary. some every day. so i found it is possible to be liked .

I can't speak for other posters, but I take comfort in knowing that I'm not alone in my struggle. For me, it's not about who can give the best advice - or even if you can give me any advice. Just knowing that someone, somewhere knows exactly how you feel ... For a person who usually feels isolated and alone, that feeling within itself is comforting.

You're not alone!

lova A...... you hit the nail on the head. it is all it takes is just knowing someone cares, and sais hey your not alone. i understand how it feels, or ive ben through the same thing that to me speaks volumes. it really makes a difference,even it it does seem small.

Welcome! I know how you feel. Sometimes I do what I call read only mode. Everyone matters and every opinion counts. There are times when I give hugs or say hang in there. I know from personal experience that just a hug or nice word can make someones day.

It' 3:30 am and I am still awake. Have to work tomorrow!!hopefully I can get dome sleep so I can be more positive when I crawl out of bed. You are right. Its the depression. No sleep makes my anxiety ho off the wall.

Your opinions would be welcome here. I hope you start to feel more at home here.

You are a part of us here. It is nice to meet you. I hv been a member for 7 years. you r not alone in your feelings of self doubt. It sounds like you are tired, after working all day, then taking care of a house and family let alone dealing w depression. I hope you have some support. That is what we r here for. I hv reached out at very low points. But, do so when u feel comfortable.